Monday, July 29, 2013

Ryder . 4 Years Old Pictures

For Ryder's 4 year pictures we met up again with Ali (of "Clearly Seen").  She had taken Harvick & Jarrett's 2 year pictures (and family ones!), and she offers a very affordable "birthday" special.  Ryder picked out his own shirts for the occasion, and was quite proud of his choices.  I wanted something more "urban", and the location Ali suggested turned out to have primarily GREEN backgrounds.  Perfect!

Although we didn't do family pictures, I really wanted a shot of Ryder with both Patrick & I.

Such a handsome boy!

We've tried to incorporate a few personal items for the boys' pictures.  Lucy (the dog - named after the neighbor's dog, who gave him the stuffed version of their own "Lucy") and a portion of his train book collection made the cut this year.  Look at that smile!

These are the "outtakes", but I love them!
Notice the mark on Ryder's forehead in these shots.  He literally ran into the corner of our kitchen island granite minutes before we left the house - he kept an ice pack against his head for the drive to help with the swelling.  Ali PhotoShopped them out of the "best" shots, but I like that they are in the outtakes (and I have copies of the "best" ones with it too).  It's clearly not an always-there part of Ryder, but it is typical for him right now.  Crazy kid.

I know I'm biased, but admit just admit it - he is one cute kid!

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Pioneer Day . 2013

For the first time in at least three years, Patrick had Pioneer Day off!  I've been wanting to take all of the boys to a parade, and this was a perfect opportunity!  Luckily, our friends Jennika, Kaebrie, Leighton, and London could join us!


After the parade we headed home, and just hung out together.  A few days ago Ryder noticed the firework stands were once again open - he asked then if we could do fireworks again.  Of course, after spending his obligatory time having "Quiet Time" in his room following lunch, he reminded Patrick & I of his request.  He and I headed out to buy some - he loved picking them out - and lit them at bedtime with the boys.



We loved having a mid-week day off together!

And, in case you're bored, you can see our celebrations in 2012 and 2011 as well.  The comment at the bottom of my 2011 post rings true still (2 years later!)...

And, speaking of "Pioneers", the topic must be on people's minds in Utah this week . . . I have been told no less than a dozen times (honest!), that I would "make a great Pioneer woman" when I talk with people about Harvick and Jarrett.  I'm thinking it's a Utah thing . . . where else would someone say that?!

Seriously, I still am often told that when people hear the birth weights of the boys.  Where else in the world is someone so often compared to a "pioneer"?!

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Apraxia of Speech & Surgery

Upon first writing about Apraxia of Speech, I made a goal to write weekly updates, and I did...at first.  As progress was slow, and our therapy schedule/routine changed, I lessened.  At the beginning of this year, the 1 year mark, I made no promises.  In my mind, I had planned to write a mid-year post on July 1.  Why do I make these goals?  I know life will get in the way.

Fun filled evenings and weekends.  Swimming every week.  Soccer.  Speech Therapy two to four times weekly.  Busy.  Summer life.

Oh, and fluid concerns...

Back at the Early Intervention (EI) assessment for Harvick & Jarrett, the therapists could not get a reading with the tympanogram - an instrument inserted in the ear (like a thermometer) that forms a seal, and a pressure test - intended to check for fluid.  Harvick is a mouth breather, and had a bit of a cold.  Jarrett was wiggly.  The therapists weren't concerned - both boys respond to commands, and passed the birth hearing screening.

When our EI therapist visited, she made mention of no result.  She wasn't content with not having a reading, so she brought the machine to our home at the next visit.  She was having issues with the machine working properly - it would error, or would read as though there was fluid.  Weird.

So, we had the boys' doctor look at their 2 year appointment.  He noticed both ears were "sucked in", but thought it was fairly insignificant - likely due to allergies (Patrick has them, and Ryder seems to as well).  So, the boys took a low-dose allergy medication.  The doctor's tympanogram results a month later showed definite fluid in Harvick's ears, and some in Jarrett's ears.

But, wait.  The boys are healthy.  They have each had an ear infection in each ear (one in Spring 2012, and again a year later).  Antibiotics resolved the issue each time.  Nothing chronic. 

An appointment with an ENT revealed Harvick has "significant and thick (mucus like) fluid".  Jarrett has the same viscosity of fluid, but slightly less.  Harvick also has enlarged adenoids (something we've suspected since birth, but without any significant issues (chronic sickness), it isn't treated).

Both boys need tubes.  In both ears.  Harvick will likely have his adenoids removed (they will do a scope when he is under anesthesia to be sure).

So, how does this relate to Apraxia of Speech?

Well, had we not been through the thick of Apraxia of Speech, Patrick & I (and our doctors and therapists) may have been concerned sooner about Harvick & Jarrett's lack of speech.   Harvick & Jarrett have still not been diagnosed with Apraxia, but it is suspected.

The surgery has a multitude of outcomes - the best case is that the tubes are a "magic pill".  That, with the fluid removed, they are able to hear clearly, which will allow them to talk clearly.  Worst case is that we are only battling Apraxia, now with no fluid to impede progress.  And, a million in between possibilities.

But, as I wrote earlier this year, we are facing this challenge head on.  Harvick & Jarrett have already received EI therapy and private therapy earlier than Ryder.  And, Ryder has made immense progress.  To think that at his 3rd birthday party he was still saying very few words, and today - Ryder's 4th birthday - he talks constantly.  Endlessly.  He is witty.  He has his father's sense of sarcasm.  He is funny, and he knows it.  He is curious & inquisitive.  He can express himself - with words.

The boys will be in surgery tomorrow morning.  The surgery is short (Harvick's will be a little longer because of the scope, and possible removal of adenoids).  Recovery time is quick as well.  We may be able to tell a difference in their speech as early as hours following.  Or, it may take a little while, as they re-learn to hear words and sounds correctly.  Or, an improvement may not come directly relating to the tubes, but with the intense Speech Therapy big brother received.

Please say a prayer for our little boys as the surgery is completed.  And, while my prayer will be that it is the "magic pill" to resolve their speech, it will be okay if it isn't.

You see, I have a love/hate relationship with this diagnosis.  Because, I want to end this post with "DAMN APRAXIA!"  Yet, I know that without it, Ryder may not be the reflective child that he is.  He understands the power of words.  He knows he can effect emotion with what he says.  He is empathetic because of it.

So.  I'll end this post as I have all other times I have written about Apraxia.

One-step-at-a-time.

Harvick, Ryder, and Jarrett
(taken at Harvick & Jarrett's 2-year-old session)

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Treehouse Museum Luau . 06.29.2013

At the end of June we took the boys to the Treehouse Museum Hawaiian Luau.  The Treehouse puts on 2 parties each year for members, and this was our first one we've been able to attend.  The boys weren't interested in the treats provided, but did enjoy the Hawaiian dance presentation.  And, best of all - they had the main floor mostly to themselves (the art activity and theater shows didn't interest the boys)!



The boys LOVE the membership to the Treehouse - thanks to their Hansen Great Grandparents and Uncle Darrin & Aunt Jill!

If you'd like to join us, just let me know - this summer each boy can have a child guest come with them, as well as 2 adults each!

Monday, July 8, 2013

Hogle Zoo . 06.23.2013

We went to the Hogle Zoo on June 23rd to celebrate Lincoln's (my co-worker's son) 1st birthday!  The boys love the zoo, and thanks to Aunt Julie, we are able to visit often!  As always, we started by visiting the elephants.  Much of the zoo is under construction, but the animals we saw were out, and active.  The train is closed (until 2014), but the boys enjoyed ending our time there with a carousel ride.  Also - you'll notice we visited without a stroller - all the boys did well walking on their own!



Sunday, July 7, 2013

Dinosaur Park . 06.22.2013

As often as possible, we take advantage of the free summer activities/admission - a couple weekends ago it was Dinosaur Park!




Saturday, July 6, 2013

Independence Day . 2013

Look at me - a post being blogged timely!

This past week we celebrated Independence Day.  Our family's celebration was not really "traditional", but perfect for us!





Look how much the boys have grown...last year (2012)...2 years ago (2011)...and even 3 years ago (2010)!

Friday, July 5, 2013

Boys' Birthday Party . 06.01.2013

We thought we would skip hosting a birthday party for Ryder this year.  Our intent had been to do a "big" 1st year party, and then do more of a family thing until he was older.  But, we held a 2nd birthday party to make sure he didn't feel like his brothers were taking over the attention (being born 2.5 months prior).  Then, we did a 3rd birthday party last year since his brothers got a "big" 1st birthday party.  But, something seems extra special about twins turning 2 - 2 2 year olds.  So, I had the idea to do a party for all 3 boys...in one!  

On June 1st (between the actual birthdays) we hosted their robot-themed birthday party.  The boys have plenty of possessions, so we elected to make it a "no presents" party - it was really a barbecue with birthday treats!









If you are looking for custom made shirts, you must check out Bluewater Road Kids.  The owner is incredible!  SO easy to work with, and the shirts are the best quality!  They've held up to multiple washings, and still look like brand-new.

Also - we've yet to have a "birthday cake" at any of the boys' parties.  At this age, we just figure that it is easier to not mess with extra plates and forks!  A few months previous, some co-workers took me to Madbrook Donuts - I decided then that we would order their donut holes as the birthday treat.  Madbrook was great to work with, and was more than happy to customize 12 dozen donut holes with the boys' colors - in sprinkles!

And, I think when my ability to write (and have people still read it) is limited, I tend to summarize things the best: